Week 21

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Its funny how I can feel like my belly doesn't get bigger for several weeks and then BAM. I wake up one morning, look down, and can't believe what's happened in what feels like a matter of hours. My weekly bump photo was taken on Sunday afternoon, and when I woke up to get dressed for work Monday morning, I felt like I'd grown in size exponentially. My tummy skin is feeling very tight these days and my bump is pretty hard all the time. I'm always ready for a snack and I've put on a grand total of 10 lbs so far. 


Literally a day or two later from the photo above. It happens over night!

Daniel and I also toured the hospital's birthing center this week. We've been there more than a half-dozen times to visit our friends after their own deliveries, but I felt like going and checking out the facilities for ourselves as patients would give me some peace of mind. I don't have very many BIG fears... cockroaches, birds, heights, and childbirth. So going into delivery as prepared as I can be (and with an open mind that nothing ever goes according to plan) is just about the best I can do. I definitely felt the color drain out of my face more than once while we were on the tour and, as usual, Daniel did a great job of cracking jokes and making light while I was clearly nervous and uncomfortable. It was something about realizing that... one way or another... she has to get OUT of me. And at that point, there are some seriously weird things that need to be coordinated that I've never even considered. Pediatricians and social security numbers and insurance and birth certificates. The list goes on. I'm glad we're doing these tours and classes to get ourselves prepared, but I can't help but wonder who's bright idea letting us have a kid was?

How far along? 21 weeks
Maternity clothes? SOS! Send more maternity underwear, please! 
Stretch Marks? Not yet...
Bladder Watch: High alert
Sleep? God, I miss sleeping on my stomach. I cannot stay asleep for more than an hour or two these days.
Best moment(s) this week: Spending time catching up with a few of my girlfriends that I don't get to see as often. Sometimes, laughing with lady friends is really all you need for a bit of healing.
Miss Anything? The sleep position thing is really killing me, and I've tried the pregnancy pillows, but they don't really do it for me. Someone cut a hole in my mattress pronto.
Movement: I can feel her every day, but she's only crazy strong about every other day still. Daniel has felt her a few times and I tried to get her to wiggle more for Emily, but so far no dice.
Food Cravings: COLD things. Its still in the upper 80s here and I'm over it. Cereal with cold milk, ice cold water, etc. I cannot wait for some actual fall weather on vacation!
Anything making you queasy or sick: Unprepared meat, and sometimes even meat that is cooked. The fattier the meat or if it has bones, its an absolute no-go.
Gender: The future is female.
Labor Signs: No
Pregnancy Symptoms: Low energy, large appetite, and pregnancy brain are the dominating symptoms. However, the random crying for no apparent reason (and for every stupid reason) continues. Charlie horses and the expected foot/leg pain. Pleased to see my round ligament pain is tapering off a bit.
Belly Button in or out? In
Rings on or off? Besides my wedding rings, all others are off. The wedding rings might need to follow before too long.
Happy or Moody most of the time: Both. Life outside of pregnancy is complicated and challenging right now. I'm so happy when I think about Frankie, but moody and frustrated with everything else.
Looking forward to: My trip to Chicago to see my girlfriends Rachel and Ruri next week! Bring on the brunch, sight seeing, and the chilly weather!

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