The Shrinking Bladder


  • Frankie and I had an eventful week between our first Halloween party of the season, teaching a few macrame classes, a doctor's appointment involving my glucose tolerance testing, and my birthday on Wednesday! I would comment on how exhausted I am, but duh. While I've been seriously dreading my glucose test, I also was pleased to see the doctor and get the all-clear for our trip overseas in about a week. My mom had gestational diabetes during both of her pregnancies and I'm kind of predicting I will have it, too. The test itself was quick and easy (just the one hour), but I won't get results back for a few days. In the meantime, I'm trying to monitor my carb/sugar intake.... SIKE. I had some of the absolute best brioche bread pudding I've ever had in my life on my birthday and ate it until I practically made myself sick. Whoops!

    I think the biggest change for me this weekend was finally feeling excited and energized enough to begin the real "nesting". I've been holding off on cleaning out her room from all my macrame and class materials, as I'd planned on continuing teaching classes until the new year. But the farther along I got in pregnancy, the more I wanted to call it quits (especially with the carpal tunnel) and focus on Frankie. This sounds completely stupid as I type it, but I haven't felt yet like I've been able to really spend energy thinking about her as a human person joining my life. I've been worried about IVF and miscarriage and then Daniel's job and about one million other things, that she, as a human and not an abstract idea, has been pretty secondary. I know she won't use that room much for the first while she's here, but its more of a milestone for us. When we picked out the blueprints for this house, we knew that would be our child's room. We didn't know it would happen so quickly, only a little more than a year after we moved in, but we're so beyond grateful. All through the process of building the house and then once we got our positive pregnancy test, I would walk into that room and stare at the wall where the crib would eventually go. I just thought about the possibilities and spent a lot of time hoping in that room. Now its finally happening. And I'm going to decorate the hell out of it.

    How far along? 24 weeks
    Maternity clothes? Elastic is life!
    Stretch Marks? I had a momentary freak out one morning when I thought I spotted some, but it just turned out to be left over body paint and glue from my Halloween costume!
    Bladder Watch: Its exactly what you'd expect.
    Sleep? Meh. I've been waking up at the booty crack of dawn to use the bathroom and then I can't fall back to sleep. Even though I'm exhausted, I really enjoy the few hours I have before work alone in the house to tidy up or enjoy my coffee. 
    Best moment(s) this week: The Springfield Halloween Ball! Its one of our favorite events of the year and this one did NOT disappoint. Daniel and I dressed up as Indiana Jones and the boulder from the Raiders of the Lost Arc. Our costumes were a hit, and we were recognized as runners-up for the costume contest. (photo below)
    Miss Anything? Being able to bend and twist normally. I can't shave my legs effectively, I am starting to have trouble twisting in my seat to check other lanes while driving. I feel like I am a planet, and we're not even in the third trimester yet.
    Movement: Lots and lots. When I'm sitting still at work or in the mornings, especially. When I'm out with friends and standing or moving a lot, she's pretty still. It really is amazing to feel her now that her movements are so powerful. I'm convinced that sometimes shes actually kicking my hip bones!
    Food Cravings: It's been a pretty neutral food week, surprisingly.
    Anything making you queasy or sick: Eating too much, which I learned the hard way on my birthday.
    Gender: Girl Power
    Labor Signs: None!
    Pregnancy Symptoms: Obviously, nesting has begun. But on the physical side, the plantar fasciitis braces I've been wearing around the house have been helping a lot. I have hopes those things will help me get rid of that symptom before our trip to Europe in about a week. Everything else has been pretty steady. Lack of good sleep, lots of peeing, swollen body parts, but still feeling pretty good!
    Belly Button in or out? Still in, shockingly.
    Rings on or off? The cold front that moved through Sunday means I get to wear my rings for a while longer!
    Happy or Moody most of the time: Both, but mostly happy. The cooler weather has made being pregnant much more bearable. 
    Looking forward to: Working on the nursery and my prenatal massage at Ponte Vedra Spa this weekend.


    Indiana Jones and the boulder

    Birthday dinner at River and Post

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    Baby's first Chicago trip! I took a little solo trip up to visit with my girlfriends Friday through Monday and MAN I had a blast. I ate all the food I could manage and still fit in some touristy destinations over the three and a half days. I'm trying my hardest to take advantage of trips like these while I can. It'll be a while before I can just up and go. Don't get me wrong- I totally trust Daniel with Frankie alone and I know she will be perfectly safe and happy with him. But it will still be a few months of (hopefully) breastfeeding and even after that, I know I'll probably be too obsessed with her to want to leave for a while. Even trips with her will be completely different. No more crashing on whatever couch we find, no more traveling without a plan. Its crazy to think about. Even though a phase of my life is ending, I'm really excited for this next part. 

    In pregnancy land, things are definitely kicking into higher gear. Besides the fact that I can feel her kicks and wiggles all the time now, I'm also starting to experience some of the not-fun symptoms that arrive at the end of the second trimester. Specifically, swelling. My feet, hands, and occasionally other body parts are most definitely swollen. It wasn't so bad up in Illinois, but Florida has opted out of fall, as usual. The heat tends to literally make me nauseous and I lose my appetite if I go outside at all right now. Its taking everything I have not to just drop our AC down to 68 and say to hell with the electricity bill. Hot weather normally does not bother me, but this year is turning into the longest summer of my life.

    How far along? 23 weeks
    Maternity clothes? For sure! I grew exponentially this week. 
    Stretch Marks? No, miraculously
    Bladder Watch: I got a lot of practice going to the bathroom in my winter clothes this weekend in Chicago.
    Sleep? Still on and off. I'm coming to terms with less sleep and I seem to be functioning okay.
    Best moment(s) this week: My trip to Chicago to see my girlfriends. I've been friends with Rachel and Ruri for over 15 years and get to see them once every few years, if we're lucky. 
    Miss Anything? I definitely missed my lungs this week. They are starting to become compressed and walking at a fast pace or walking uphill is getting pretty difficult.
    Movement: She's pretty constant these days. She goes a few hours a day without nudging me, but for the most part, she is always moving around. She likes to nap about an hour after meals and then she's back to her antics. The cat even decided to "make biscuits" on my stomach one night, and she was kicking the cat back. Like a weird game of patty cake mixed with monkey in the middle (me being the monkey).
    Food Cravings: I ate SO MUCH in Chicago that was amazing. I also gained two pounds this week. Whoops.
    Anything making you queasy or sick: Hot weather. 
    Gender: Baby girl
    Labor Signs: No 
    Pregnancy Symptoms: Appetite still going strong. Swelling.... everywhere. Carpal tunnel and plantar fasciitis have been kicking in a bit more with all the swelling my hands and feet are doing.
    Belly Button in or out? In
    Rings on or off? On when in the cold air in Chicago, back to being tight when I returned to 92 degree Jacksonville.
    Happy or Moody most of the time: Happy, but SO busy. This time of year kind of kicks off the crazy for our family. My birthday is the opening week for holidays, birthdays, special events, and this year is no different... we just have to squeeze in a baby shower and some other prep, as well! I feel like I will blink and it will be January.
    Looking forward to: Our neighborhood Halloween party this weekend! I really have waited my whole life to be pregnant for Halloween. I do wish my belly was a little bigger for my costumes, but I'll make do. Can't wait to show you! 😁


    Visiting Lake Michigan


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    And looking like a serious ragamuffin. The humidity over the last week has been intense but it HAS to cool down soon, right? RIGHT?!

    This week, I finally started having some of the logistical issues that come with being pregnant. I learned that putting on tights while pregnant is a team sport (I abandoned the effort), that sometimes its just easier to ask your husband to tie your shoes for you, that you CANNOT squeeze between cars in the parking lot, and that shaving/hair care anywhere from the chest down is a job best left for the professionals at this point. I knocked over a coworker's drink on his desk from belly interference. I just have no real spatial awareness at this point.

    I joked to friends that I don't FEEL like I can possibly be that pregnant yet. Emily replied that my opinion on how pregnant I am does not matter, the fact is that I'm pregnant enough to need help. And she's right. The actual ligament pain has subsided pretty completely, but now there's a coconut squashing my lungs and making bending complicated. I will happily accept open doors, offered seats, and all the help I can get.

    She also started kicking with such force that it actually makes me jump me sometimes. I have definitely shouted a curse word or two at her when she delivers a particularly strong one when I'm not expecting it. Funny, my baby app says she should be sleeping 12-14 hours a day still, but it certainly doesn't seem that way. Wednesday, she spent the entire day at work moving around, slowed around dinner, and then finished with her first ever bout of hiccups while we were watching a movie. At first, it felt like a tiny kick, but I was seriously impressed with the rhythm she was keeping... then I realized it had to be the hiccups!

    How far along? 22 weeks
    Maternity clothes? I'm getting excited because I'm starting to fill out some of the maternity dresses that are designed for larger bumps
    Stretch Marks? No
    Bladder Watch: I have to go once an hour, at minimum.
    Sleep? My weekend nap for three hours was the longest stretch I've gotten all week. Between my cat and my husband competing for loudest snorer, my chihuahua and Frankie competing for who can kick mom the most, and the hound dog just being a restless jerk, I just can't catch a moment of peace. Considering creating my own sensory deprivation tank, but that still doesn't fix the tap dancing fetus issue 😌.
    Best moment(s) this week: SEEING Frankie move from the outside. On Saturday morning, I was laying in bed and she was just going nuts. I decided to try and see if I could catch her on video, and after a few unsuccessful attempts, I caught one good kick on camera, clear as day. 
    Miss Anything? Still the energy/sleep. Something tells me this might be a common theme for the rest of pregnancy.
    Movement: She is lord of the dance! 
    Food Cravings: I still prefer snacks and dessert to almost anything else. I feel like I can eat more snacks without squashing my lungs/getting heartburn.
    Anything making you queasy or sick: Meh, not really.
    Gender: Girl
    Labor Signs: No
    Pregnancy Symptoms: Big appetite (for snacks)! Exhaustion, pregnancy brain, indigestion (even when I just drink water!), the usual. 
    Belly Button in or out? In
    Rings on or off? I wore only my wedding band for a few days, because I was worried my engagement ring was going to get stuck.
    Happy or Moody most of the time: Happy! I'm currently ON A PLANE to see my girlfriends in Chicago!
    Looking forward to: This weekend! A much needed vacation with my friends I only get to see once every few years. Bring on all the amazing food and sightseeing!
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    Its funny how I can feel like my belly doesn't get bigger for several weeks and then BAM. I wake up one morning, look down, and can't believe what's happened in what feels like a matter of hours. My weekly bump photo was taken on Sunday afternoon, and when I woke up to get dressed for work Monday morning, I felt like I'd grown in size exponentially. My tummy skin is feeling very tight these days and my bump is pretty hard all the time. I'm always ready for a snack and I've put on a grand total of 10 lbs so far. 


    Literally a day or two later from the photo above. It happens over night!

    Daniel and I also toured the hospital's birthing center this week. We've been there more than a half-dozen times to visit our friends after their own deliveries, but I felt like going and checking out the facilities for ourselves as patients would give me some peace of mind. I don't have very many BIG fears... cockroaches, birds, heights, and childbirth. So going into delivery as prepared as I can be (and with an open mind that nothing ever goes according to plan) is just about the best I can do. I definitely felt the color drain out of my face more than once while we were on the tour and, as usual, Daniel did a great job of cracking jokes and making light while I was clearly nervous and uncomfortable. It was something about realizing that... one way or another... she has to get OUT of me. And at that point, there are some seriously weird things that need to be coordinated that I've never even considered. Pediatricians and social security numbers and insurance and birth certificates. The list goes on. I'm glad we're doing these tours and classes to get ourselves prepared, but I can't help but wonder who's bright idea letting us have a kid was?

    How far along? 21 weeks
    Maternity clothes? SOS! Send more maternity underwear, please! 
    Stretch Marks? Not yet...
    Bladder Watch: High alert
    Sleep? God, I miss sleeping on my stomach. I cannot stay asleep for more than an hour or two these days.
    Best moment(s) this week: Spending time catching up with a few of my girlfriends that I don't get to see as often. Sometimes, laughing with lady friends is really all you need for a bit of healing.
    Miss Anything? The sleep position thing is really killing me, and I've tried the pregnancy pillows, but they don't really do it for me. Someone cut a hole in my mattress pronto.
    Movement: I can feel her every day, but she's only crazy strong about every other day still. Daniel has felt her a few times and I tried to get her to wiggle more for Emily, but so far no dice.
    Food Cravings: COLD things. Its still in the upper 80s here and I'm over it. Cereal with cold milk, ice cold water, etc. I cannot wait for some actual fall weather on vacation!
    Anything making you queasy or sick: Unprepared meat, and sometimes even meat that is cooked. The fattier the meat or if it has bones, its an absolute no-go.
    Gender: The future is female.
    Labor Signs: No
    Pregnancy Symptoms: Low energy, large appetite, and pregnancy brain are the dominating symptoms. However, the random crying for no apparent reason (and for every stupid reason) continues. Charlie horses and the expected foot/leg pain. Pleased to see my round ligament pain is tapering off a bit.
    Belly Button in or out? In
    Rings on or off? Besides my wedding rings, all others are off. The wedding rings might need to follow before too long.
    Happy or Moody most of the time: Both. Life outside of pregnancy is complicated and challenging right now. I'm so happy when I think about Frankie, but moody and frustrated with everything else.
    Looking forward to: My trip to Chicago to see my girlfriends Rachel and Ruri next week! Bring on the brunch, sight seeing, and the chilly weather!
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